Sunset Over the Mekong River

Showing posts with label service. Show all posts
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Wednesday, February 10, 2016

Alive!

 ​​​​​​​​The grass withers, the flower fades,
        but the word of our God will stand forever.
                                                                Isaiah 40:8

First a cousin.

Later a sister in Christ.

Now we rejoice that Pat has gone to dwell forever with the one who has been the object of her praise and worship for many years.

Pat and I grew up living less than 20 miles away from each other, though in separate towns, in central Connecticut.

We were not only close in distance but also close in age, being born only a couple of months apart from each other.

We mostly saw each other at family gatherings, though it was always a special treat when we went to visit their house, because they had a swimming pool.

At about 5 years of age, sitting across from each other. 

I didn’t see or hear much from my cousin after high school.  She had gone off looking for something and ended up finding Jesus and a husband.  But I really knew little about where she was or what she was doing for many years.

But then our lives intersected.  We ended up moving to Bakersfield, California, only 50 miles from where Pat was then living near Lake Isabella.

Steph, Pat, and Don (and Josh's legs)-sometime in the early 90s


It was a difficult time in the lives of both of our families.  We were in the process of adopting a child, an adoption that, in the very last minute, did not materialize.  Pat was recently separated from her husband and trying to get established on her own.  In spite of her own difficult circumstances, she was a great encouragement to us.

We saw each other a lot that first year we were in Bakersfield.  We traveled to Lake Isabella almost every weekend and ended up putting in a vegetable garden in her back yard. We had commonalities in that we both played guitar and liked similar worship music.

It was fun to be a part of her family as she raised her two children to love Jesus as much as she did.

Eventually, we moved away from Bakersfield to Fresno, but we stayed in touch and were glad to celebrate her reconciliation to her husband—a testimony of her great faith in Jesus and her love for her husband.

Reconciliation Celebration



Our lives continued to intersect in Fresno as we were both involved with a movement to get the good news of Jesus Christ to those people in the world who have not had opportunity to hear about Him.  Our common interests brought us together at missions conferences.

Later, after moving to Thailand, our paths would again cross as we served in our different roles for a common purpose: Pat with Global Teams and ourselves with MB Mission.

Pat with Steph and Frank visiting us in Bangkok
Pat's life wasn't without struggles, but she faithfully served Jesus through it all.

Pat was able to be at her husband's side while he battled cancer.  But Jesus called Don home a few years ago.  Only in the past two months did she marry again.

Today, we received word that Pat has gone to be with her first love.


This isn’t the first time that Pat has died.  Many years ago she made the decision to die to self and live for Jesus.  And while she may no longer walk the dusty streets of earth with us, she is more alive than ever in the presence of Jesus.

We will miss you here, Pat, but glad that you are home.

Thank you for touching the lives of so many with the love of Jesus during your sojourn with us.

I tell you the truth, unless a kernel of wheat is planted in the soil and dies, it remains alone. But its death will produce many new kernels—a plentiful harvest of new lives.  Those who love their life in this world will lose it. Those who care nothing for their life in this world will keep it for eternity.  Anyone who wants to be my disciple must follow me, because my servants must be where I am. And the Father will honor anyone who serves me.
John 12:24-26 (NLT)

Wednesday, September 23, 2015

The Circle of Christ

The other day Andy, Jamie and I were out on a bike ride.  Andy proceeds to make a joke to Jamie about the meaning of the Thai word for bicycle: chakkrayan (จักรยาน).

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Bicycle: Wheels and Spokes

Interestingly, I had less than half an hour earlier explained to Jamie that the way I learn (and remember) languages is by noting relationships between different words and phrases.  I had commented, then, that I learned more from reading because I could see relationships in spelling that aren’t always apparent in the spoken Thai. 

Andy’s comment about the meaning of the word chakkrayan triggered this analytical impulse in my brain.

The core syllable of the word chakkrayan is chak which has an atypical spelling in Thai (จักร) that comes from the Pali language.

So, within seconds, I’m thinking about other words that contain this syllable.  The first one that came to mind was Thamacak (ธรรมจักร) or “Wheel of Dharma”

Wat Phratat 12 Rasi 1
Dharma Wheel: Wheels and Spokes

Do you see any similarities?

Wheels and spokes.

The next word that came to my mind was Khrittacak (คริสตจักร)
Khrittacak is the Thai word for church.  I had never really thought about it that way before.  The Thai word for church means “circle of Christ”.

What a beautiful picture.

A circle of believers connected to each other and each person connected to Christ who is at the center.

For some illustrations; click here

As I shared this with Andy, our minds both took a a similar turn.  Andy used the phrase “church in a circle”, an idea that had been floating my head for some time.

But before I go on further about the Circle of Christ, I should give a little background.

Christ’s Values vs. Cultural Values


The main task of our current work fits under a category our agency calls capacity building.  We are not so much directly involved in starting new churches as we are helping existing churches find a way to better reach out to start new ones.

As part of that process, one needs to look at what has been done, what is working, what isn’t working, what can be improved, etc.  The special challenge in this is dealing with cultural differences.  We are not here to make Western Christians and we aren’t trying to change the local culture insofar as it doesn’t conflict with the teachings of Jesus and scripture.

One of the dominant features of Thai society and many of the other cultures in this area is the concept of class or status.  While class may not be as obvious here in Thailand as it is with the caste system in India, it is deeply en-grained.  When strangers meet, they ask questions that may seem to be a bit intrusive to us Westerners (age, salary, job) in order to figure out their relative status so that they may know how to relate to each other. (For more on this subject see my post: How Old are You?)

Unfortunately, this cultural value has been carried over into the church.  And it fits well with the professional clergy model that was brought over by Western Missionaries.  Mix this in with a little sinful pride, and we see some people who want to be called by the title Pastor, or a local title Ajan, but who don’t have a pastoral heart.  They want the status that the title brings but not necessarily the job that goes with it.

This problem is certainly not unique to Thai culture.

An additional complication working with the Khmu people is that they are used to a family/clan society that has a strong and influential leader.

But what does the Bible have to say about this?

A couple of weeks ago, I was in one of our churches and the leader asked if I had anything to share.  I got up, and they told me to go up and speak from the platform.  Instead, I picked up one of the chairs that was on the raised platform in  the front of the church and set the chair in the front center of the platform. I then said that I wanted the most important person in the church to come sit in that chair.

Fortunately, no one did.  One person even mentioned that Jesus would be the one to occupy the chair.

I then had someone read from 1 Corinthians 12:12ff about the body of Christ.  Next I asked them which body part was the most important and, via several examples, pointed out how physiologically each organ is interdependent on the rest.  I carried this analogy over to the church.  Paul make the point in the chapter that while we have different roles in the church, there is not one class of members that is better than or superior to others.

While we may say that we believe that we are equal brothers and sisters in Christ, do we act that way?

A common title for teachers and leaders in Thailand is Ajan meaning master or teacher.  This title is often applied to me, though I prefer to be called uncle, a pronoun that merely gives respect due to age, or by the more generic pronoun khun.

Just a couple of weeks ago, I was reading Matthew 23, and I was troubled by verse 8: But you are not to be called rabbi, for you have one teacher, and you are all brothers.

The Thai word where the English has  rabbi is than ajan. (“Than” is a pronoun meaning “you”).

Why is our most popular title a title that Jesus says we should not use?  Are we letting culture triumph over Christ?  I’m still not sure where to go with this.

Serving vs. Serving


Recently I was having to deal with an employee over performance issues.  I was trying to be gentle about it and I wanted to see if perhaps his performance was related to his personal goals versus the nature of what he is employed to do.  So I started with the question: “What is your career goal?”

His answer was: “I want to be a servant.”  The Thai word he used was Phu Rap Chai.
Phu Rap Chai is an interesting word.  While it means “a person who serves”, it is a common, self-effacing term used by those in Christian ministry to title themselves.

I found this employee's use of the term rather interesting, because we were actually paying him to serve and he wasn’t doing it.  So I questioned him further and I found out that his idea of “serving” was being a paid preacher.

This concept of servant is not unique to this individual.  While I can name many true servants of God in our churches here, there are also many “servants” who do not have a servant heart.  Among young people, the main ministry people want to get involved in is preaching or being on a worship band. They want to serve in ways that put them in the front of the church. Few want to do things like teach children, cut the grass, or wash the toilets. (I'm sure there is plenty of this kind of feeling in my home country.  I, too, wanted these kinds of roles in my younger years.)

This stands in stark contrast to how Jesus taught the concept of service by doing one of the lowliest jobs possible at the time: washing his disciples feet. (John 13:1-15) 

Spiritual Gifts and Status Gifts


If an outsider were to visit one of our church services, and we were to ask him what he thought the most important positions in the church were, he would probably reply: “preacher and music leader.”  The activities of preaching and listening to music probably take up the bulk of our church services. (As I write that I find that the term “church service” itself is a bit problematic as it implies we go to church to get served.)  And we place the preacher and worship leaders up front on a platform.  It is a church based on watching, not doing.

What is interesting, that if you go through the lists of spiritual gifts in Romans 12, 1 Corinthians 12, and Ephesians 5, you will find neither “preacher” nor “music leader”.  It’s not to say that these aren’t valid roles.  It’s just that they seem to take a dominant role at the expense of the exercise of the gifts that are listed.

Preaching vs. Teaching


I, personally, wonder about this whole preaching thing in church.  When I look in scripture, I don’t see Jesus preaching to His disciples.  He preaches to the masses.  He teaches His disciples with words and by giving practical ministry experience.  Jesus discipled his disciples.

When I was young, I longed to have someone disciple me.  But our North American church didn't offer much of that.  As I grew older I found myself of being asked to disciple others, but I felt ill-equipped to do so because I had not been through it myself.

Spectator Church


Going to “church” then becomes not much different that going to a football game.  We cheer (sing songs) and watch (listen to the preacher) while the team up front does all the work.  And if it is a good experience we go out saying “we won”, even though we didn’t actually do anything.

The Circle of Christ


I’ve simplified the issues we are dealing with in our churches here quite a bit.  And I still have way more questions than I do answers.  But I’m thinking if we start with a foundation of khrittacak, it can help us move away from a spectator based church.

For several months now, I’ve been toying with the idea of “church in a circle” in my brain.  What would it look like if we designed our church gatherings as a community of equals?  Having everyone on the same physical level would be a reminder that we are all equal before Christ.  Being in a circle would be a reminder that we all bring something to the church and we are equally participants--not spectators.  Not that all have the same role.  Not that all are equally spiritually mature.  But all are essential members of the body of Christ.

I’ve thought of volunteering to “preach’ and then go and rearrange the chairs before I start.  But unless the people change their mind about what the church is, something so radical would probably not be adopted as a regular practice. It would also be difficult to adopt because it would be viewed as odd compared to what other churches are doing.

In our Khmu villages where family and community are so important it would be nice to have churches based on a way of doing family and community life rather than reduced to going to a meeting to watch people “serve” once or twice a week.

I'm not an authority on any of these things.  I still have more questions than answers.  But I do like the idea of khrittacak-the Circle of Christ.

For some illustrations; click here